There was a regular monthly Newfield Borough Council meeting held last night. It was loud and boisterous but the language stayed fairly tame. The policemen there to keep order did not have to eject anyone. Nothing was really settled about the fire company's fate, however. But I felt so much better about my fellow citizens then I ever have before. New and old faces turned out to tell the Council they were to fix the problem they had created - get the situation with the fire company back the way it was.
The blame for the failure to communicate was placed squarely at the feet of the Council. People want the situation to go back to where it used to be: The Borough Council runs the Borough services and the Fire Company runs the fire/rescue services and both respect each other and leave each other alone.
Unfortunately, the fire company issued an ultimatum that if the situation is not fixed in 30 days, they would quit. I hope cool heads will prevail and that will not occur. The impetus has to come from the Borough Council. They were reeling last night and I sincerely hope sensible action happens quickly today. I don't hold out hope, however, since they did the first reading of new ordinance about the fire company that according to the solicitor addresses the issues brought up by the court. I have to say according to the solicitor because he sat there and stated he was not finished writing it. How they could have a first reading of an ordinance without it even existing in written form is beyond me!?! How can a Council member, in good conscience, vote yes on an ordinance they have not even had the opportunity to read? I would have trust issues with the solicitor, if nothing else, at this point.
Different people tried to pin down who had placed the call to take the fire company out of the 911 response rotation on the evening of April 11 before they even held the vote whether to lock out the fire company or not. No one owned up to it.
It also became clear to the audience, at least, that the Borough Council agrees how they are going to vote before the meetings. I don't know if that is illegal as one of the audience members suggested, but it sure goes against the spirit of a participatory democracy. The meetings are open for public comment so the Council can hear what people think and feel before they enact an ordinance. Sometimes unpopular decisions have to be made but this issue is not about slavery and neither the Mayor or any Council member is Lincoln.
My heart was really warmed by two people. One was Loretta Williams. She comes to every meeting and, of the times I have attended, I have seen various Council members try to intimidate her out of speaking her piece. They interrupt before she is finished or talk to her as if she is a child. This time when they interrupted she fought back politely. She said that according to Robert's Rules of Order that she had the floor and wasn't finished. She got to finish. Go Loretta. The other person I can not identify by name. At the town hall meeting he had volunteered to run as a write-in candidate and listened almost for two hours last night before he spoke. He referenced the Declaration of Independence, "That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it" and Edmund Burke's "All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." He announced his write-in candidacy, too.
I was over at the wikipedia page for Edmund Burke and didn't realize how many profound and succinct things he said or wrote. I am going back there.
The Council did announce a permit for recycling and trash collection had been obtained and when it would start. When someone asked if and how recycling would be enforced, it turns out there is a camera mounted in the truck to watch as trash carts are dumped inside. If there are any recyclables seen as a trash cart is dumped, they will place a sticker on the trash cart. Enough of those stickers and your trash will not be picked up. I was so upset because instead of encouraging people to recycle they are threatening again. All they did was insure that people who find it too hard to recycle will purchase heavy black trash bags that don't reveal what is inside. Heck, even I will get some in case I have a pizza box that has too much grease and pepperoni/sausage debris that it is not really recyclable just looks like it.
I went up to ask if they were going to send out material on recycling ahead of time (usually it appears in the Town Crier pamphlet which appears in my mail after the event). I was told it would be on the web site. This prompted me to remind that the the old out of date web site (newfieldboro.org) comes up just as often as the new one (newfieldboro.net). The response was that they had to keep the old domain name for email reasons.; I told them to have the old redirect to the new and it was a simple change. Lo and behold, someone was listening because as of now, that redirection has been implemented. Once in a while someone listens to me. Amazing.
The other item that was passed also flabbergasted me. It was a resolution to allow a company to install fiber optic cable in the rights-of-way. Mostly, I was flabbergasted because they have not even negotiated terms yet. I was assured that the fiber optic would run on the utility poles already in place around town. Fiber optic is often buried. Assume often makes an ass out of "u" and me. I drew their attention to this matter because some of the cemetery land is now a bird sanctuary (later to be burial lots) and has utility rights of way. I know this because the gas company called me before they laid new flexible pipe and when they heard it was a cemetery chose a different route. Like Loretta Williams, I had to assert my rights to the floor to even finish my concern.
My feelings are mixed. Nothing was really settled and we are still barreling down the path to having no fire company. More people, who are not directly related to the fire company, participated. They made their wishes clearly known and it wasn't for the Borough Council to keep on its merry way trying to control the fire company and fire chief as it was jeopardizing the safety of the town. I learned more about their issues with the ex-fire chief (they are suing him) and even one of the council members backed him up as a specific charge was based on incorrect information. People were brave and spoke their minds. I hope someone with wisdom and gravitas fixes this soon.
Friday, September 13, 2013
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
Spontaneous acts of kindness today as tribute to 9-11-2001
In this morning's paper I scanned an article about people performing public service or random acts of kindness today as a tribute to all those who lives were lost or irreparably harmed on 9-11-2001 by the terrorist events. I like that some people have planned what they will do and others are waiting for the moment to strike them. I think I will be one of those. Hope you join in. Honoring the fallen by doing something positive is food for the soul.
Friday, September 6, 2013
Beware of using a hammer when the target is not a nail
The emotional state is so high on all sides of this feud that is tearing apart Newfield. It is impossible to determine what is fact and what is remembered incorrectly or even the context that may make a fact not look so damaging or harmful. I have heard so many versions of events - all told in a highly emotional state -all conflict or have a different ignition point for the feud, so I do not know what to believe. Mostly, I just want it to end with the way it used to be. I don't know if that is possible now.
One thing is clear to me. When the Borough Council tried to "solve" what they perceived as their problem with one individual on the fire company by writing and enacting a law with the help of their solicitor, the unintended consequence was to insult, anger, and hurt the other members of the fire company. Thus, the feud snowballed.
Why were the members of the fire company so hit hard emotionally by the law? The ordinance "took over" what are normally responsibilities of a volunteer organization to create its own by-laws, to designate and name officers, and to decide who is a member or who isn't. It wasn't like this was a fledging organization that needed guidance even though guidance in this manner isn't appropriate anyway. The fire company has had by-laws and membership rules since 1908.
Did the Council members carefully read over the text of the new ordinance before they pledged their vote or did they listen to a summary that seemed to give them the ability to solve their "problem"? I don't know. Furthermore, I have no idea who actually wrote the ordinance. Was it a Council member? Was it the town solicitor? Was it a "freshly minted" lawyer in the solicitor's office who had little experience in researching what should or should not go into a local ordinance because it is already covered by state or federal laws? I don't know.
What I do know is that they used a hammer (an ordinance) to fix what is a communications problem rather than a nail (speed limit on town streets). I do not believe they had exhausted every communications avenue open to them nor had the fire company. Individuals on both sides took it upon themselves to respond emotionally and evoke emotional responses in others. Reason and logic flew out the window. Everyone is trying to "control their turf" to the detriment of the town.
Sometimes the emotions run so high that people express the belief that the best solution is to run a specific person out of town. I am somewhat guilty in that respect because I was so angry after the events of the April Council meeting when the fire company was almost locked out. That is not the way to end the feud either as it will leave a bad taste in townspeople's mouths for years to come.
The truth of the matter is phrased so succinctly in the Cool Hand Luke movie: "What we've got here is (a) failure to communicate." Court-ordered, court-controlled mediation would be best as has been suggested in the past and keeps coming up. Also, it is essential that an ordinance be written and enacted that restores the relationship between Borough Council and volunteer Newfield Fire Company No 1 to what it was before the 2010 ordinance changes began.
This second part would let the townspeople know that the Borough Council is not trying to run the fire company and it would also let the firemen, who volunteer many hours of their time throughout the year, know they are respected and so is their organization.
What is the chicken and what is the egg? Some one has to make the step - loudly and publicly. Some one has to be brave.
One thing is clear to me. When the Borough Council tried to "solve" what they perceived as their problem with one individual on the fire company by writing and enacting a law with the help of their solicitor, the unintended consequence was to insult, anger, and hurt the other members of the fire company. Thus, the feud snowballed.
Why were the members of the fire company so hit hard emotionally by the law? The ordinance "took over" what are normally responsibilities of a volunteer organization to create its own by-laws, to designate and name officers, and to decide who is a member or who isn't. It wasn't like this was a fledging organization that needed guidance even though guidance in this manner isn't appropriate anyway. The fire company has had by-laws and membership rules since 1908.
Did the Council members carefully read over the text of the new ordinance before they pledged their vote or did they listen to a summary that seemed to give them the ability to solve their "problem"? I don't know. Furthermore, I have no idea who actually wrote the ordinance. Was it a Council member? Was it the town solicitor? Was it a "freshly minted" lawyer in the solicitor's office who had little experience in researching what should or should not go into a local ordinance because it is already covered by state or federal laws? I don't know.
What I do know is that they used a hammer (an ordinance) to fix what is a communications problem rather than a nail (speed limit on town streets). I do not believe they had exhausted every communications avenue open to them nor had the fire company. Individuals on both sides took it upon themselves to respond emotionally and evoke emotional responses in others. Reason and logic flew out the window. Everyone is trying to "control their turf" to the detriment of the town.
Sometimes the emotions run so high that people express the belief that the best solution is to run a specific person out of town. I am somewhat guilty in that respect because I was so angry after the events of the April Council meeting when the fire company was almost locked out. That is not the way to end the feud either as it will leave a bad taste in townspeople's mouths for years to come.
The truth of the matter is phrased so succinctly in the Cool Hand Luke movie: "What we've got here is (a) failure to communicate." Court-ordered, court-controlled mediation would be best as has been suggested in the past and keeps coming up. Also, it is essential that an ordinance be written and enacted that restores the relationship between Borough Council and volunteer Newfield Fire Company No 1 to what it was before the 2010 ordinance changes began.
This second part would let the townspeople know that the Borough Council is not trying to run the fire company and it would also let the firemen, who volunteer many hours of their time throughout the year, know they are respected and so is their organization.
What is the chicken and what is the egg? Some one has to make the step - loudly and publicly. Some one has to be brave.
Wednesday, September 4, 2013
Open Letter to Borough of Newfield Council & Mayor
227 Church Street
Newfield, NJ 08344
September 5, 2013
Borough of Newfield Council & Mayor
18 Catawba Avenue
P.O. Box 856
Newfield, NJ 08344
Dear Sirs & Madam:
At the last regularly scheduled Council Meeting
held August 8, 2013, a new ordinance was introduced. Since the text of the ordinance was not
available, a member of the audience asked what was the subject and content of
the new ordinance. We were told to the
best of my recollection that it was mostly cosmetic changes and that election
of officers was to revert to the volunteer fire company rather than be selected
by Borough Council. Subsequently, I have
found that the cosmetic changes are more than that by reading the public notice
printed in the South Jersey Times on August 14, 2013.
At the next Council Meeting on September 12,
2013 I expect you will vote to enact this ordinance, as that is the customary
procedure. Since I object to some of its
wording, I feel I have a duty and responsibility as a voter and a taxpayer to
make clear my objections prior to its enactment, while you still have time to
re-write it or withdraw it.
For clarity reasons, I will quote each section
and then provide my comments.
PUBLIC NOTICE BOROUGH OF
NEWFIELD ORDINANCE 2013-8 AN ORDINANCE AMENDING ORDINANCE NUMBER 2013-7,
CHAPTER 25, 25.2 AND 25.5, FIRE DEPARTMENT OF THE CODE OF THE BOROUGH OF NEWFIELD,
COUNTY OF GLOUCESTER AND STATE OF NEW JERSEY, ENTITLED "FIRE COMPANY"
WHEREAS, THE MAYOR AND COUNCIL OF THE BOROUGH OF NEWFIELD, COUNTY OF
GLOUCESTER, AND STATE OF NEW JERSEY, DESIRE TO AMEND ORDINANCE 2011-15
REGARDING CHAPTER 25 OF THE CODE OF THE BOROUGH OF NEWFIELD ENTITLED "FIRE
DEPARTMENT"
Just to be certain I understand, 2013-8 amends 2013-7 which was
its self an amendment of ordinance 2011-15.
NOW, THEREFORE, BE IT
ORDAINED BY THE MAYOR AND COUNCIL OF THE BOROUGH OF NEWFIELD, COUNTY OF GLOUCESTER,
AND STATE OF NEW JERSEY, AS FOLLOWS:
This establishes what authority you are exercising in making
this ordinance.
Chapter 25. Fire Company
25 .1. Establishment. There is, and has been established, within the Borough of
Newfield a fire company, known as the Newfield Fire Company No. 1 (hereinafter
"NFC") was which was created and established is hereby continued to
be recognized by the Borough of Newfield. No other fire-fighting organization
is to be formed within the Borough without consent of the Borough Council. NFC
must comply with all the requirements of this Chapter and any rules or
regulations promulgated hereunder.
As this starts, it contains what I
expect and hoped for: recognition of the volunteer Newfield Fire Company No. 1 (NFC)
as the fire-fighting organization for the Borough of Newfield. This provides the necessary legal
authorizations for them for liability and insurance purposes. It also provides a fire-fighting capability
that as a taxpayer and voter I need at lowest cost – through a volunteer/unpaid
organization.
I believe the next sentence about
forming other fire-fighting organizations is both unnecessary and unwise. It is unnecessary because even if a group
designated itself a fire-fighting organization, it would not have authority to
fight fires in the Borough. It is unwise
because it restricts future actions that technological innovation or other state
or national events may make obsolete.
The last sentence about NFC
adhering to requirements and rules is also unnecessary. NFC must obey NJ and national regulations and
is subject to the authority of the Gloucester County Fire Marshal. The members’ conduct is also subject to
their own by-laws. Those regulations are
more than sufficient to ensure that the volunteer fire fighters are qualified
and able to perform their duties.
Furthermore, the authority of the Gloucester County Fire Marshal applies
expertise in fire and other hazard response that current or future Council
members do not and probably will not have unless a Newfield resident becomes
the Fire Marshal.
25.2. Line Officers. The
line officers of the NFC shall consist of a Chief, Deputy Chief, Assistant
Chief, Captain, Lieutenants, and Fire Police Captain as shall be elected by the
NFC and submitted to the Borough Governing Body to ensure that they are
properly credentialed and qualified to serve as firefighters as provided by law
and regulation.
I assume you lifted the names of the line
officers from the current by-laws.
Enacting into law is unnecessary as these names may change as state and
federal guidelines and regulations change. If the by-laws are changed and the
fire chief becomes the Grand Poobah, why should any one care? What I as a citizen and you as the Governing
Board should care about is that it is at all times clear in the bylaws who is
in charge and the chain of command at the scene of a fire (or other hazardous
event). This is needed because of NJ statue
40A:14-54.1. Authority at scene of fire of fire
official in charge of supervision or direction of operations
The chief or other superior officer of any
municipal paid or part-paid fire department or volunteer fire company, or a
State fire warden, who is charged with the duty of supervising or directing
operations at the scene of any fire shall be the sole authority within fire
lines established by said fire chief or other superior fire officer, or State
fire warden, at the scene of such fire with respect to all firefighting
operations relating to the protection of lives and property endangered by such fire,
and within said fire lines such authority shall supersede that of any municipal
police authority. The authority hereby invested in the chief or other superior
officer, or State fire warden, shall terminate at such time as he shall declare
the fire out. Nothing in this act shall affect the powers possessed by the
Governor under the various emergency acts nor the powers possessed by any State
agency to protect the public health, welfare and safety.
L.1981,
c. 435, s. 1, eff. Jan. 9, 1982.
I also think Borough Council has
neither the skills to judge the qualifications or credentials of an individual
fire fighter nor the authority to approve the officers of any volunteer
organization. I know the Superior Court
ruling granted you the power to rule on a fireman’s credentials but why you
would want that responsibility is what I don’t understand unless it is a
personal one. It is my opinion that reflecting personal issues into a law makes
a law not good, not fair, but poor. Basically
the Superior Court Judge said it was not in Council’s purview to appoint a fire
chief, to run the fire company or determine firefighting protocol. I would replace this section with paragraph
endorsing NJ 40A:14-54.1
25.3. Approval of
Department bylaws. The bylaws of the NFC shall be submitted for the approval of
Borough Council. Any amendments thereto will not become effective unless and
until formally approved by Council. Approval of the bylaws and such amendments
shall not be unreasonably withheld.
I believe the judge already ruled
that you could not approve the by-laws.
Asking that a copy be provided and kept up-to-date is reasonable. So, please re-title and re-write this section
to ask for a copy to be given to the Town Clerk for guardianship purposes.
25.4 Reports to Council.
It shall be the responsibility of the Chief of the NFC to make all reports to
Borough Council as hereafter required by this Chapter.
I believe the NFC by-laws, NJ
State, and Federal regulations and guidelines spell out the duties and
responsibilities of a fire chief. Since
the Gloucester County Fire Marshal has responsibility to make reports on a
state level and because the NFC falls under the authority of Gloucester County
Fire Marshal, any data needed would be requested by that office. Whether the Fire Chief or some other officer
of the NFC provides that data or some other entity (911 organization perhaps?),
those are the proper channels.
I recommend you remove this section
as unnecessary and redundant to state regulations.
25.5 Ownership of
quarters. The Borough of Newfield shall retain ownership and control over
quarters entrusted to the NFC.
At one time, the land where the current
Borough Hall/Fire Station/Senior Center is now situated was under the control
of the Newfield Board of Education and belonged to the Borough. When Edgarton Memorial School was opened, use
of the building that had housed the school was given to the NFC and they were
permitted to build an attached garage for housing fire equipment. Council meetings were held there and public
and private functions such as Kiwanis and wedding receptions used the old
school building.
Eventually, that building was
replaced and updated to the current configuration. I am sure that the land belongs to the Borough. Whether the land and/or buildings are under
the authority and control of the Borough Council or the Newfield School Board
is an open question.
I think it would be wise to remove
the clause about control. Ownership
should be all that is necessary to ensure that the building and its contents
are covered by the Borough’s insurance.
25.6 Expenses. Borough
Council shall supply to the NFC funding at its discretion, based upon the needs
of NFC, and taking into account funds raised by this volunteer organization.
This paragraph is unnecessary
unless you are counting under the needs of the NFC the funds for maintaining
equipment owned by the Borough. In which
case, the proceeds raised by the NFC nor donations given to the NFC should not
be used for maintaining Borough owned equipment. That is a responsibility properly provided
through tax monies. You have the
authority to give the NFC money to defray expenses such as training courses,
training materials, damage to clothing, etc as a budget item as you, Borough
Council, so chose. It’s a requirement
for the Police Department since that is a Borough paid organization, not
voluntary, as is the NFC. This is
already under your discretion and does not need to be spelled out.
25.7 Purchasing and title
of equipment. The Borough of Newfield shall retain title to all equipment
purchased with funds supplied by Borough Council for the purpose of purchasing
such equipment. However, nothing shall preclude the NFC from purchasing its own
fire equipment or other personal property and retaining title thereof;
provided, however, that if the Borough shall have a financial responsibility
toward the purchase, operation or maintenance of such items, prior formal
approval of Borough Council for such purchase shall be required.
So as it has been in the past, so
it will be going forward. I might add
just after the last Borough Council the phrase “in its role as budget
authority” to make it clear that you are only approving the total expenditure
as within budget constraints, not vetting each bell and whistle. When you order a new piece of equipment for
the Police Department, you rely and trust that they will make the best choice
within budget constraints or, if there is a feature they feel is necessary but
exceeds the budget, they will make a case for that feature.
25.8 Duties of Fire
Chief. A. The Chief shall be in full command and complete control at all fires
and during the period of all alarms and shall be held accountable for his/her
actions to the Council and shall make written and verbal reports as the Council
may require. All other line officers shall be accountable to the Chief except
when any officers are acting as Chief in his absence. B. The Chief shall
formulate rules and regulations to govern the operation of the NFC, such rules
and regulations being subject to review and approval by the Borough Council,
and shall be responsible to the Borough Council for the morale and general
efficiency of the NFC. C. The Chief or line officer designated by him/her
shall, at least once a month, conduct suitable drills or instructions in the
operation of fire-fighting apparatus and equipment, first aid and rescue work,
salvage, a study of buildings presenting unusual fire problems, water supply
and other matters generally considered essential to good firemanship and safety
of life and property from fire. D. The Chief or any line officer designated by
him/her is hereby required to report to the Borough Council any suspected crime
of arson and shall render all possible assistance to the Borough Council and
the Chief of Police/Officer in Charge in investigating the cause, origin, and
circumstances of all fires of questionable origin. E. The Chief shall cause to
be kept complete records of all fires, apparatus and minor equipment, personnel
and other information about the work of the Fire Company. F. The Chief shall
report monthly to the Borough Public Safety Chair the number and types of fires
during the month, the number
and purpose of all other runs made, the number of members and man hours involved
in responding to each fire or other run, and the estimated los involved in all
building fires. G. The Chief shall make a complete annual report to the Borough
Council, such report to include information as specified in Subsection F of
this Section, together with comparative date for previous years and
recommendations for improving the effectiveness of th
As I stated before, NFC by-laws, NJ
State, and Federal regulations and guidelines spell out the duties and
responsibilities of a fire chief. Furthermore, some of the duties you are
assigning the fire chief already belong to the Gloucester County Fire Marshal
(arson determination and investigation, reports). If Newfield were a fire district and NFC was
its volunteer fire company, NJ would require certain data including that of a
financial nature to be published on a website as part of the NJ State effort on
transparency of government. The
guidelines for that data follow federal and state regulations with respect to
privacy and security.
I recommend you remove this section
as unnecessary to, redundant to, and possibly in conflict with federal and
state regulations.
Respectfully,
Margaret J Davis
Tuesday, September 3, 2013
Town Hall Meeting
The Borough Council and the volunteer Newfield Fire Company are still at loggerheads. One couple in town has arranged for the Vineland Moose Hall to be used for an open Town Hall meeting. Along with the help of a few volunteers, they handed out flyers announcing the meeting to every household.
Since I never met a meeting that couldn't use some organization ahead of time to make it more effective, I volunteered to put together a set of meeting rules. In snowballed into more than that as you can see from the included photos below.
Since I never met a meeting that couldn't use some organization ahead of time to make it more effective, I volunteered to put together a set of meeting rules. In snowballed into more than that as you can see from the included photos below.
Tuesday, July 30, 2013
Yes, there will be a chicken bbq on Newfield Day
In that land of yesteryear of the 1950's, the Newfield Fire Company, being all volunteer with no support from local tax dollars, needed to raise money for equipment. A new idea was being tried out - this is before Perdue and other corporations became a huge poultry industry - and that was to grill chicken halves over a open pit of charcoal on a hot summer Sunday. Local farmers would donate or sell at cost to the Fire Company fresh ears of corn, ripe tomatoes and rolls. The Fire Company's Women's Auxiliary would help out by holding a bake sale and Kiwanis would arrange for games like coin tosses and pony rides.
Other local fire companies were doing the same thing and families loved it. The food was good and the price was reasonable. The firemen joked over the fire pits as they learned what to spray on the chicken halves to season them and keep them moist (mixture of water, cider vinegar, salt, and pepper) and how often to turn the improvised-out-of-chicken-wire baskets to cook the chicken evenly without burning it. It was truly a sweltering job but the camaderie and teamwork were rewarding. Their faces would be black and greasy with smoke smeared with sweat, my father's among them.
The bbqs were a success -- money was raised, families had fun, the town met as a community. Over the years the bbqs got bigger as a parade was added along with more community activities. Now the one idea has become Newfield Day. The Public Library sells peach related desserts; the Business Alliance holds a Chinese Auction; the local dance studio has a recital; local marching bands participate. It's summertime Americana at its best. Any midwesterner would feel at home even though this is New Jersey.
The Fire Company debated whether to pull out from Newfield Day this year as they feel so beleaguered by the actions and ordinances of the Town Council. The vote was last night; I held my breath. I just couldn't imagine no chicken bbq again (last year's was cancelled due to damage from derecho). The company chose family, kids, and community. I am relieved and proud. They took the high road. Well done.
Other local fire companies were doing the same thing and families loved it. The food was good and the price was reasonable. The firemen joked over the fire pits as they learned what to spray on the chicken halves to season them and keep them moist (mixture of water, cider vinegar, salt, and pepper) and how often to turn the improvised-out-of-chicken-wire baskets to cook the chicken evenly without burning it. It was truly a sweltering job but the camaderie and teamwork were rewarding. Their faces would be black and greasy with smoke smeared with sweat, my father's among them.
The bbqs were a success -- money was raised, families had fun, the town met as a community. Over the years the bbqs got bigger as a parade was added along with more community activities. Now the one idea has become Newfield Day. The Public Library sells peach related desserts; the Business Alliance holds a Chinese Auction; the local dance studio has a recital; local marching bands participate. It's summertime Americana at its best. Any midwesterner would feel at home even though this is New Jersey.
The Fire Company debated whether to pull out from Newfield Day this year as they feel so beleaguered by the actions and ordinances of the Town Council. The vote was last night; I held my breath. I just couldn't imagine no chicken bbq again (last year's was cancelled due to damage from derecho). The company chose family, kids, and community. I am relieved and proud. They took the high road. Well done.
My son wrote and delivered a funny and touching eulogy for my Mom
The day went smoothly. Downpours were threatened from mid-morning onward but held off until late evening. It seemed my cousin would not make it in time to read the 23rd psalm but she did. The computer with the slideshow of old photos did not fall over or hit any electrical glitches. No one fainted from the heat but a chair did fall over. Everyone of the more than 200 people who needed a seat found one - the firemen stood in the back in case they needed to answer a call and the fire truck was stationed outside too, just in case. The flower arrangements were gorgeous and looked like my mother had been whispering in the ear of the florist as to what exact blooms to choose. My grand nephew did not trip on the easel holding the large photo of my mom as he walked by it to light the candles on the altar table with an open flame at the end of long brass candle snuffer/lighter. We had plenty of micro cupcakes (I do not exaggerate when I call them that) and cookies and punch and cups and napkins. Songs my mother sang at Malaga Camp Meeting soared through the sanctuary. The attendees were smiling with touches of sadness as they spoke the traditional "I am sorry for your loss" as they reflected on the loss for themselves, the church, the public library or Newfield itself. It was good to hear the gasps and laughter as my son spoke these words. All in all it was the perfect tribute to my mother.
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